I haven't been to Park City, either, but I do have updated information from the resort. Have you received their vacation planner? It has a lot of useful info including listings of restaurants (by type), lots of details on aprés ski activities, etc.
The official web page of Park City Mountain Resort is "http://www.parkcitymountain.com/", and there's an on-line form you can fill out to request the free vacation planner. (Click on the Trip Planner link on the left side of the page.)
I hope that helps - sorry I couldn't add any "firsthand" info!
Bars are kind of funny. You have to buy memberships, or get sponsored by a member to enter. Usually it meant paying a couple of bucks at the door, but some of the locals were glad to sponsor us from time to time.
Skiing at Park City and Deer Valley was excellent. I was there with friends of all skill levels and everyone had a great time on the slopes.
Sorry I can't be of more help, if I can find a map and jog my memory, I will pass more info along.